Thomas Denny Sanford was born on December 23, 1935, in Saint Paul, Minnesota, during the Great Depression. Sanford's mother, Edith, died when he was 4 years old from breast cancer. His first job was at age 8 working in his father's garment shop. In his teenage years, he was arrested for drinking and fighting and placed in a Juvenile detention center, being released after 36 days on the condition that he enroll in college. He became a student at the University of Minnesota, intending to become a Doctor. But he struggled with chemistry and switched majors. At age 20, Sanford's Father passed away. Sanford eventually graduated from the University of Minnesota with a degree in psychology in 1958.